
And yes — I’m organizing her celebrations. Two parties, in fact.
There are three reasons I’m thrilled to be handling this:
#1. I love BigBear’s grandmother and I’m honored to create a beautiful birthday weekend for such an amazing woman.
#2. I’m excited to plan two memorable events.
#3. I’m touched that Grandma Mary and her family trust me with the details of this big celebration.

The party theme blends flowers, ocean, beach, birds, and pastels — a soft, seaside garden vibe I’m eager to bring together.

These pastel floral accents will coordinate perfectly.

- 1 box white cake mix
- 1 cup all-purpose flour
- 1 cup granulated sugar
- 1 teaspoon salt
- 4 egg whites
- 1 1/3 cup water
- 2 tablespoons vegetable oil
- 1 cup sour cream (8 oz)
- 1 teaspoon vanilla
- 3 oz warm water
- 2 1/2 tablespoons meringue powder
- 1/2 teaspoon cream of tartar
- 1 pound powdered icing sugar
- 5 tablespoons cornstarch
- Edible glitter
- Gel food coloring
- 2D decorating tip
- Piping bags
- 1 cup butter
- 8 cups powdered sugar
- 2 teaspoons vanilla
- 8 oz cream cheese
- 4 tablespoons heavy cream
For the Royal Icing Flowers: In a mixer bowl, combine the warm water and meringue powder and mix 30 seconds. Add the cream of tartar and mix another 30 seconds. Gradually add the powdered sugar until combined, then add the cornstarch. Using the paddle attachment on low, mix slowly for about 10 minutes until the icing reaches a firm, pipeable consistency. Tint portions with gel food coloring as desired.
To pipe the flowers: Fit a piping bag with a 2D drop-flower tip. On parchment, press the tip to the surface, squeeze while rotating your wrist from about 9 o’clock to 12 o’clock, then release pressure and lift straight up. Dot the center with yellow icing. Allow flowers to dry overnight, then brush lightly with edible glitter before using to decorate cupcakes.
For the Cupcake Icing: Cream the butter in a mixer bowl until smooth. Add the cream cheese and blend well. Gradually add the powdered sugar while mixing, then add vanilla and heavy cream and mix until smooth and pipeable. Fill a piping bag fitted with a 2D tip and pipe swirls or drop flowers atop each cupcake.
Yield: 24 cupcakes

After the celebration, I updated the post with photos from the party. Here are a few highlights:




